Beginning Stages and First Steps
Legal terms you may need to know
As you move forward with the legal process, there may be many aspects, which seem unfamiliar or confusing. The following outlines and defines some of the key language used in many family court systems in the United States. If you are ever unsure of what a term means or have questions about how your case…
Read MoreArranging time between parents – Where do you start?
Figuring out how to take care of children after you separate is perhaps one of the most stressful aspects of divorce. However, when decisions about your children’s future get handed over to the legal system, without a doubt children suffer. In order to stay in control of how life changes for your children, avoid using…
Read MoreWhat do I tell neighbors and friends?
Q – I live in a tight knit neighborhood. A few months ago my husband and I separated. I feel so awkward when I run into people we know. I can tell some of our neighbors and friends are curious about what has happened. Part of me just wants to get it all out and…
Read MoreI feel so overwhelmed, what can I do?
Q – I feel so overwhelmed and raw. Between taking care of the kids, juggling schedules, dealing with my Ex and working, I am exhausted mentally and emotionally. One day just rolls into the next. I know I need time for me but I feel so guilty taking time away from my kids. What can…
Read MoreGoing from we to me
As a divorce coach, I’ve seen lots of parents radically transform themselves when their relationships begin to unravel. While embracing change and using it as catalyst for redesigning your life, isn’t necessarily a bad thing. Hopping on the life makeover train without bothering to look at where you’re headed isn’t the answer either. Choosing to…
Read MoreDecided to divorce but staying in one home until process is final. Should we wait to tell the kids?
Q – My husband and I have decided to divorce. To make things easier for the kids we are choosing to stay in one house until the end of the school year. My husband thinks we shouldn’t tell the kids until we’re ready to move and they are out of school (another six months). Is…
Read MoreFinding common ground: Putting your children first
Put your children first. “Although our relationship has changed, our children’s needs have not. How will we be successful parents?” Children need: What can you do? Want to connect with other parents? Consider joining our community on Instagram, LinkedIn and Facebook.
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