Posts Tagged ‘effects of divorce on children’
When to Look For Help
Many parents struggle with the issue of seeking help for their children. Some common concerns parents have are: Generally speaking, the rule of thumb is to trust your instincts as a parent. You know your children better than any one else. In many instances, I recommend parents seek a professional consultation for themselves before taking…
Read MoreListening to Your Children Talk About Divorce
One of the most important skills a parent can possess is being a good listener. While it sounds pretty simple in theory, many parents (regardless of marital status I might add) have a difficult time putting it into practice. To become a better listener for your children try the following: Give children your full attention…
Read MoreAdjustment Factors for Children of Divorce
There are many factors, which affect how children of divorce are able to cope. Some of those factors we can influence through our own actions, others we may have no control over. Researchers have estimated that the period of adjustment for families can range anywhere from one to three years, and sometimes even as long…
Read MoreGuidelines for Divorced Parents to Live by
The Do’s Do love your children as much as possible.Show them your love through words and actions. Do tell your children divorce is not their fault.Keep in mind, they’ll need to hear it more than once. Do reassure your children that they will be safe.Let your kids know that both parents will continue to provide…
Read MoreGet back to calm and carry on: helping kids transition between Mom’s house and Dad’s house
As parents, we often glide through a multitude of changes without so much as batting an eye. After all, it comes with the territory. Lauren wakes up with a fever, so you adjust your schedule, make a couple of calls and work from home that day. Evan surprises you with a notice about baseball practice…
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