Toddlers (18 months to 2 Years)

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As children move into toddlerhood, they begin to view themselves as separate from their parents. While exploring their newfound independence, these young children will also experience a wide range of emotions but lack the ability to understand or manage their feelings.

Be mindful that your toddler will primarily express their feelings with actions especially when they are angry, frustrated or upset. This is a time when children need you to not only love them, but to also set appropriate limits and provide discipline when they behave inappropriately.

Things to look for:

  • May engage in temper tantrums, biting, hitting, or crying when feeling anxious/stressed
  • Becomes overly clingy or anxious
  • Difficulty leaving one parent or making transitions
  • Nightmares or sleep problems due to anxiety

What to do:

  • Set appropriate limits and discipline when acting out
  • Provide predictable environment (i.e. regular bedtime and daily routines)
  • Facilitate regular contact with Mom and Dad
  • Offer reassurance of love through physical affection and direct interaction
  • Create child safe homes with both parents that allows for exploration and stimulation

Want to know more about the developmental needs of toddlers?

For additional information, suggested resources and practical tips, check out Chapter Nine of my book PARENTING APART, How separated and divorced parents can raise HAPPY and SECURE kids.

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